I've had different relationships throughout my life... And scandalous, and long... but now I'm trying to build the most harmonious, stable and happy relationship I can say right away: "It's not easy!!!" And if you think that for a happy relationship you just need a couple... A lie!!! A couple does not mean happiness and harmony yet!!! Everyone has ups and downs. There are days when we just don't move away from each other, and sometimes we can't be in the same space. The most important thing I have endured for myself is an emotionally stable state. That is, in any incomprehensible situation, I say: "Thank you, Universe, that I am alive and well! Everything else can be solved." Therefore, we can find a way out of any problematic situation. Sometimes we are all radically different, but only emotional stability inside me always helps to find a way out! Do not leave the relationship, find a compromise and be Calm after talking, setting priorities together, putting everything on the shelves.. we have to solve problems together!