or "did". In principle, I did well. But not quite right. This is how even children are driven crazy in a "schizophrenogenic family." “You are great, you painted beautifully (wiped the dust well, folded the toys, sang a song). But a little differently. " It must be different, better, more correct, let me show and tell you how it should be! Nevermind. I no longer want to draw, or sing, or fry the cutlets - they will still not be as they should be. And I don't want to share my thoughts. And express your feelings. And to get “fives”, because they will ask, praising: “and where is the“ plus? ”“ Five ”is good. But where is the plus? " Five is great. I cooked soup, bought tickets to the sea - that's great. And the child will not want to do anything, and the adult will not want to. And only then share the secrets of mastery, show how you can do better - if you can do better. If we personally fry and draw cutlets better, and we have something to share; we have a couple of "life hacks" in stock. And if not, it is worth praising and thanking for your diligence. Say: “Thank you, I am very pleased that you did this for me! I understand how hard you tried. And it turned out great! ". Because everything they do for us is great. Even a burnt pie, not even a very tasty soup or not an ingenious drawing; they have love and attention. And then we will delicately teach you how to do it better - if we ourselves know how, of course ...