Yes, you are absolutely right "-
said the wife to her husband. He shouted to her that she was an ugly, fat, bad mother and in vain he didn’t listen to his mother, who had warned him! He had said this before in anger, and quite often. And the wife screamed and argued. And she denied the obvious. And now I have agreed with the facts. Yes, that's how it is. Old, fat, ugly. And he shouldn't have married. This is a huge mistake. She's to blame for everything. And asks to forgive for everything. With quiet words, she began to watch TV. And the husband fell silent and was frightened. He didn't know what to do now; he realized he had gone too far. He began to tell his wife that he could fix something, change for the better, lose weight, demand more from his children - and his wife listened and nodded. She agreed. And she didn't say a word across; The scandal subsided, the children came from school - they were already big. And the house was quiet. Calmly. As in a crypt. Because when a person agrees that he is worthless and ugly, the quarrels will end. And the relationship will end too. Everything. And in vain did the husband say that he got excited, didn't want to say that, didn't mean it - the wife just nodded and said that she completely agreed. He is right. He needs to marry someone else, she doesn't mind, it's her own fault. And life turned into a nightmare. Because when the person admits all the accusations, the relationship will end. When he stops defending himself, fighting, responding, there will be no conflicts. But feelings will also disappear. The equal relationship will end. And with them love. No one can be blamed and humiliated forever: neither a husband, nor a wife, nor a child, nor a subordinate ... And this husband showered his wife with gifts, and asked for forgiveness, and spoke of love - and she listened and nodded. And she looked over her husband's shoulder out the window, at the yellow trees, at the sky, somewhere in the distance. Where everyone who's heart is broken is staring. And who agreed that he was bad and worthless. Don't tell a loved one that way - the day will come when he will agree with the accusations. But this will not make anyone better.