Before you start helping someone, think about the fact that you may soon make an enemy.
So, the poetess Tsvetaeva called the termination of aid "swinish". Salome Andronikova helped her for 8 years: she worked in a magazine and gave part of her salary to Tsvetaeva, her husband and children. And she also collected money from friends for the poetess so that she could pay for a three-room apartment with a bathroom in Paris and go “to the ocean” to have a rest. Salome also gave her things: coats, dresses, shoes, a sofa, a table ... And then a crisis struck, and the opportunity to help disappeared. People themselves barely survived, what kind of rest "on the ocean" is there ...
This offended Tsvetaeva very much. The entire family budget was built on this money. And the poetess began to call these donations "her advance." And take it 3 months in advance ... Insist in letters from the resort: "Send me my support, we spent a lot of money, everything is so expensive here!" And then she called the termination of aid "swinish."