You have met the "tox". The main sign of a bite
"Toks" are not dachshunds or pugs. "Toxami" in professional slang is called "toxic people". And they write a lot about the manipulations that these poisonous people use. About their tricks and ways to adversely affect the life and health of others. About the ways that they "break through" the psychological defense and cause harm. And there is a lot of writing about the signs of toxic communication. But there is the main sign by which one can understand - you have been bitten by a "tox".
So in films about zombies and vampires - after a bite, a normal person also turns into an aggressive "living dead" and begins to bite others, usually his family and friends. That's right, they are close! They are nearby. And they do not expect an attack from mom or dad, from an old friend, from a good-natured colleague, from a grandmother or from a daughter, for example. But it is on the loved ones that the "bitten one" attacks. After a confrontation with a "tox" you experience strong irritation, even anger, which is accompanied by dysphoria - a depressed, sad, angry mood. It doesn't matter where and how you were "bitten" by a poisonous person. At work, does he bite into you; or talked on the phone, or in person, or comments are poisonous; you will experience this state: melancholy anger and anger. And you are not at all to blame. You are simply poisoned, as after being bitten by a poisonous snake. The body has developed a huge amount of bad, destructive substances. "Tox" literally ruined your blood; analyzes show it. And after communicating with a toxic person, you will certainly pour out the condition that has arisen on your loved ones. On a husband, on a wife, on a child, on an old parent ... And he will not be able to clearly explain what the matter is. It is difficult to explain your outburst of irritation by the fact that some unfamiliar person touched you with a depreciating and poisonous comment. Or that a colleague talked to you about your dress in a way that made you sick. How to explain such a trifle and stupidity, because of which you pounced on a loved one?
This is the main sign. "Toks" are cunning. And they bite those who cannot give back - they are specially guarding in the network of kind people. Or they make poisonous speeches with those who will try their best to endure: because of work, for example. "Toks" specially choose the pages of psychologists or doctors to portray the victim and throw up their hands: oh, you are a psychologist! And so they answered me sharply! Be ashamed! Or they attack employees who should be courteous and polite. These are their favorite objects. Never in my life have I personally seen a poisonous person become attached to an armed policeman or a drunken thug. They are excellent at choosing an object to attack. An intellectual in a hat, so to speak. If you feel toxic contact, stop immediately. In all available ways. Block, do not respond, turn away, involve other employees in communication for support and witnesses - avoid contact, as taught in the zombie films. Because otherwise you yourself will turn into a "toxa" and harm those you love. And this is not necessary. Let the toxic person go their own way. And you take care of yourself and your loved ones - this is the most important thing, I assure you. Life and health are more important than everything