Respect is one of the fundamental concepts in your relationship. Where there is mutual respect, harmony, understanding and love will always reign. When you are in a relationship, you need to respect each other and your common common space, which means that even any correspondence with people of the opposite sex, which will contain flirting and intimate topics, should be a priori excluded. Because this offends your unshakable unified space. Roughly the same if, being in your house, you do not throw your garbage in a certain place, but throw it in the corners, eventually turning the house into a trash heap. In a home, as in a relationship, cleanliness is necessary, and cleanliness will be only if there is respect. And since you have chosen this path - to be together and be in a relationship, then respect each other, appreciate. Keep your home, your souls, your thoughts clean. Respect your shared space. Otherwise, there is no point in starting this relationship.