There are such questions as master keys. Which - if you answer without hesitation, on an impulse - pull out of you honest and simple answers about your condition and needs, sometimes better than hours of conversations.
“If I ask,“ What do you owe yourself? ” - what comes to mind first? " - I somehow asked this question to friends and answers poured in ...
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Dancing
Sleep, a lot of sleep
Orgasms a lot
Walking
Massage
Tenderness
Care
Forgiveness
Self esteem
Dating
Calm mornings and delicious breakfasts
To lie in bed not because I am sick, but because I am resting
Relationships where I will be loved
Time to be alone
Life
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Many answers, hundreds ...
And you know - none of them touched on what we usually think we should: something about money, work, regular exploits, “be strong and persistent”, “lose 10 kg”, “make a million”, “Hand over the project”, etc.
In fact, there was something that we just got used to leaving after (!) After all the huts were extinguished and the galloping horses were stopped.
Needless to say, life is arranged in such a cunning way that, as soon as you put out one hut, the other catches fire; and the horses gallop not once a quarter, but in endless herds.
Do I need to remind you that it is permissible to be owed to anyone. But not to yourself.
So what do you owe yourself?