New challenges are fun because they empower you. You are growing, developing in different directions. Do you think that you are not worthy of a talented, intelligent, creative person? Think back to all your accomplishments and skills. Suddenly it turns out that you do pilates, know how to fix bicycles, sing well at karaoke, speak foreign languages... Scientific evidence suggests that the more multifaceted your personality, the better it is for your inner state. This will be mirrored in your communication skills with other people. Try to find all the facets of your personality that reveal your potential. I am sure that many people consider themselves unworthy because they have low self-esteem. You are talented! You are smart! You are creative! Remember your favorite hobby in childhood. What inspired you? Perhaps your online friend was also fond of the same activity. I know a story about a girl who got a job not because of her competence, but her interests. The point is that she loved to grow cactus and read books about plants. She came for an interview at a large company, where the competition was very high. The management accepted only the best specialists. But the miracle happened! It turned out that the owner of the company collects cacti. And upon learning that the girl loves these plants, he accepted her as a personal assistant. What do I mean? It can work in relationships! Look for common points - and everything will work out.