For many people the phrase "love yourself" is something incomprehensible, a bunch of noises. In fact, everything is quite clear: if you do not like yourself, you are not satisfied with your work and personal life, and you can not do anything about it, then you do not love yourself. And it often happens that low self-esteem are beautiful people - they are in demand, but the first 15 minutes, then they open their mouths, and that's it.

All the same, our parents, even the wisest, taught us to love yourself for something: we have something to prove, something to represent. In fact, you can only love yourself for nothing. Usually, when one asks, "What do you love a person for?" the correct answer is "just because." So why don't you feel that way about yourself? I suggest this way out of this situation: "I like myself because I am me." Not because you are better or worse, but because it is you. Go home, strip naked, look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I like everything. Everything I see is fine with me."😜

You can only love yourself for nothing! Don't you think so?
A person who loves himself, does not tolerate, does not explain that there are relatives to feed, that there is no way out - this is nonsense. People with high self-esteem do what they want and are not afraid of the consequences. They live as they like and do what they love. If they are in a marriage, it is purely out of love, and if love is gone, they get a divorce. To love yourself is to be able to live the life you want, and that is the key to happiness.💕

If you want to improve your self-esteem, stop asking people about themselves - both those close to you and those far away. Evaluate yourself - it's hard, but it's the way to be yourself. In the word self-esteem, the first root is "yourself" for a reason - it's your opinion, not someone else's. If you're really failing at something, ask yourself not "What's wrong with me?" but "What am I doing wrong?"

Ask yourself "What do I want", stop doing everything on automatic, learn to understand what you want - for starters, at least just in terms of food and clothes. That way you will gradually learn to understand your desires.

To be yourself is to live your life: not the expectations of society, but the way you want it. Many people are driven by feelings of duty, guilt, shame, inability to change things, the need to have abnormal relationships, imposed fears. In fact, people don't care so much about each other that no one would notice if you stopped trying to live up to someone else's expectations!!!