Hello everyone
Today I want to continue my topic: Top 5 reasons for divorce and how to avoid it.
The top 5 reasons are as follows:
💔 MARRIAGE TOO FAST.
💔 FINANCIAL PROBLEMS.
💔 JEALOUSY.
💔 DECREASED LIBIDO.
💔 CHEATING PARTNER.
Today we're going to break down the third reason and how to avoid it.
💔 JEALOUSY💔

Causes of jealousy in a couple:

💔 Low self-esteem.
People with low self-esteem often think that they are not worthy of their partner and he will find someone better at any time. They also think that people around them treat them somehow wrong and hide a lot from them. They naturally suspect their second halves of infidelity. Such people need to improve their self-esteem. This can help any form of self-development. This will help get rid of complexes and jealous thoughts.

💔 Waiting for the inevitable loss of love.
Some people believe that if their partner communicates less with their surroundings, they will not be able to change. Such a position can be fatal to the relationship. Jealous in this case, you just need to stop waiting for the possible loss of your partner, only then will there be trust in the couple. It is necessary as little as possible to think about infidelity because bad thoughts can easily materialize.

💔Your own desire to cheat
People who judge by themselves and feel that they can cheat on their partner, it is very difficult to overcome jealousy. They need to reconsider their own line of behavior in relationships and life. If they don't give in to temptation themselves, they won't suspect their partners of it either.

💔 Mistrust in a couple.
In this case, you need to become to your half not only a partner but also a friend. Distrust can easily destroy any relationship. Only when you can rely on each other in any difficult situation in life, you will cease to be jealous of each other. When people share the most intimate, all suspicions simply falls away.

Many people see jealousy as a sign of true love. If a person is jealous, it means they care about their partner. But the total control, distrust, interrogation with bias - it's pathology, which can destroy any relationship.
❤️ So how to avoid jealousy in a couple?❤️
1. Talk frankly with your partner
Don't be afraid to talk about this topic. Explain what's bothering you. Share your fears, tell us at what moments this feeling awakens in you. If you care about your partner, he will help you cope with groundless jealousy. If there are grounds, you need to think seriously about the problem that exists in the relationship.

2. Be honest with your partner.
The more you hide from your partner (the lock code on your smartphone, laptop, tablet), the more likely you are to trigger feelings of jealousy. As soon as you lock something away, you give reason to think you have something to hide. I strongly recommend not hiding anything, thus saving your partner from unnecessary reasons for jealousy.

3. Develop Yourself
Start building your self-esteem. Engage in self-education to train your mind, sports to train your body. Identify your growth points and try to grow in them. Reach inner harmony.

4. Control your thoughts.
Shift your focus from your partner to something else. Find a hobby that will capture all of your attention and leave no room for negative thoughts.
Realize that the cause of your jealousy lies not in the actions of your partner, and their own fears of horror, which draws your imagination: treason, betrayal, loneliness.
Realizing that the cause of your jealousy - fears and complexes, do not expect your partner to do something magical, which will pass jealousy. The only person who can pull you out of the swamp of jealousy, before it completely destroyed you completely, is you.
The main thing is to start working with jealousy in time so that you don't form a negative life experience that can make life miserable.
❤️Be loved and don't be jealous❤️