Few of us want to change another. We truly fall in love with the whole person. And we really like the whole bouquet of qualities that he is endowed with. And no, we are in no hurry to make changes to this portrait. But we often want to change our attitude towards ourselves, especially when for some reason it does not change for the better over time.
We want to be more valued and respected, to respond with kindness for kindness, care for care. After all, no matter how beautiful a person is, if you don’t expect any tenderness, attention, participation, or understanding from him, sooner or later, his attractiveness loses its colors. When a person does not call for a long time, forgets to congratulate you on the holidays, avoids heart-to-heart talk, goes into silence for no reason, is not interested in your affairs, health, success, is not afraid to offend and does not at all seek to change at least something, seeing perfectly well that from his the behavior of the other does not become happier - what the hell does it matter, how beautiful he is there?
Nobody needs perfect people for life. But everyone wants to be truly loved and cherished. After all, in fact there are no bad or good people. There is good or bad attitude...