Why is this happening? It's all the fault of the differences between men and women, which are laid down by nature itself. Do you want to make your man happy? Then pay attention to 6 effective tips from psychologists!
1) LEARN TO HEART IT 👂💭❤️
When a girl tells her lover that she wants more communication with him, she means by these phrases the desire that the gentleman understand and hear her. As for men, for them the most logical way to show their love is not empty words and promises, but deeds and actions. Therefore, a woman needs to learn to hear her man, to feel his attitude through the prism of actions.
He changed the light bulb, changed the tires on the car, drove the children to school himself, all this, like a litmus test, proves that he cares about you. No need to ask and expect high-flown words of love from him, only a few men are capable of this, yes, and even those actions do not always coincide with words.
Learn to hear your loved one, he proves his love to you every day through small actions, which is why it is so important that all his efforts are appreciated and recognized. Learn to thank in return, often say a simple word "thank you" to your soulmate. If you begin to take all his efforts for granted, criticize his actions, find flaws in his actions, then the partner will show less and less desire to do something else for you. As soon as you begin to notice his efforts and thank you, you will soon notice how your beloved will begin to change for the better, flourish, become more tender, kinder towards you.
2) DOWN WITH STEREOTYPES AND PATTERNS ❌🗯
If you have entered the path of understanding and are moving towards making your relationship with your loved one happy, then you will have to work hard. First of all, every woman will have to change the attitudes that have developed in society and cast aside stereotypes.
You don’t have to wait all the time from a man that he himself will guess about your secret desires. And this applies to absolutely all spheres of your life together. Dreaming of some kind of gift for a birthday or other holiday? Learn to say it out loud. Would you like him to help in some way? Then learn to ask for help. In a word, stop thinking that he will guess your thoughts. Try to briefly and clearly convey to your loved one what you expect from him.
3) REPLACE CRITICISM WITH SINCERE GRATITUDE 🗣❌
It is always easier to criticize a loved one than to notice that he does good and meaningful things for the good of the family. This, by the way, applies not only to the partner, but also to all household members. Learn to pause whenever you feel like making a comment. Think about it in your head, is it worth saying this remark or reproach out loud at all? Perhaps it is easier to fix some defect in silence for a loved one? Always focus on what your loved one is doing great. After all, the partner gets up every morning and goes to work to provide his family with everything that is necessary for life. So maybe it's time for you to make an effort to make him feel comfortable at home.
4) ATTENTION AND TENDERNESS ❤️❗️
Often, men show tenderness and affection only in those moments when everything is moving towards physical intimacy. And in a simple, everyday life, few of the guys tend to constantly endow their soul mate with gentle and affectionate words. Women, on the contrary, want to hear words of tenderness from their lover as often and as often as possible. But, the key to intimacy still lies in women's hands, so start being the first to show tenderness to your soulmate, and not be offended by his everyday coldness and restraint.
Walk with him in the park in the evening after work, take a shower together, give him a light massage, smile at your soulmate every time he comes home from work. All this tenderness will be appreciated by the man soon, and he himself will begin to tell you compliments and affectionate words in response.
5) ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE 💭❤️
Never start a conversation with a lover by voicing problems. This is a simple but effective truth that will help you be in the eyes of a man not a source of problems, but a beloved woman. We met after a hard day, chat on any positive topics, discuss plans for the weekend. Do not start conversations with negative news, it will not end in anything good.
And, of course, in the ability to communicate, a woman's ability to listen to her soul mate occupies a significant place. It is important not to be a passive listener who does not answer inappropriately and inserts meaningless remarks, but to be able to join the conversation, to be attentive to what the partner is trying to convey to you
6) UNDERSTAND IT 💆💑
Every person wants to be understood. Your partner wants to feel safe next to you, the poet, when he voices his fears, doubts, problems, he expects understanding from you, not condemnation. If you begin to retell everything that he told you to third parties, to make fun of what is important to him, then it will not end in anything good. You should also not condemn and criticize his hobbies, people dear to him and work.
Be sympathetic to the fact that men and women are inherently different, but this does not mean that they cannot find a common language. Learn to move towards each other, listen carefully to him, appreciate what he does for you, show your sincere feelings and respect him. Only in this case, the man will be happy next to you, which means that you yourself will be happy!
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