The psychology of men in love changes with age, as do attitudes about other values and circumstances. Criteria for choosing a partner, which guided the guy at age 25, will completely change when he is already 40. Emotions and heartfelt attachments are replaced by intelligence and cold reasoning: for men of this age, comfort in the home, calmness and mutual understanding are important. Of course, the beautiful and efficient woman - the dream of every man. And they pay attention to the appearance at any age, but the priorities when choosing a partner can shift significantly in favor of its practicality and malleable character, rather than external data.

I think a woman who wants to build a relationship with a man over 40, should not dissolve into it, forgetting about myself. Preserving the individuality, her own interests, she will look like a whole formed and confident personality, and therefore will be attractive in the eyes of a mature man.