The relationship of two people is an extremely complex thing, which can be influenced by a variety of factors that arise both from outside and within the couple itself. So what is this behavior?
Today I will talk about one of the reasons for this - "Negative view of the world"
In everyone's life, hard blows happen from time to time. Job loss, illness and death of loved ones, an unfulfilled dream - all this seriously undermines a person's optimism, he loses faith in the best and begins to look at everything through the prism of disappointment. And this negativity is contagious. When one of the partners is constantly unhappy, and the second unsuccessfully tries to support him, console him, cheer him up, both eventually experience complete emotional devastation. They no longer feel joy from the relationship, attraction disappears.
Of course, after difficult situations, everyone needs time. If your loved one has experienced this, at first it is worth acting delicately, supporting him, helping with solving problems; give the opportunity to express negative emotions, and not require the same positive attitude as before. But if the experiences have dragged on, the problems have already been resolved or enough time has passed, and the person still continues to see the negative in everything, it is worth gently directing him to therapy. Few people manage to get a loved one out of depression on their own, without the help of professionals. And when you try, you can get into the negative yourself.