Someone considers disinterested help to be moral standards, forcing others to adhere to them. But isn't it pointless?

Such help shows the level of development of a person, the need for it comes by itself when the right time comes. Usually at this time, views on life change, and selfless help itself allows you to feel differently in the world.

Help is only valuable when you share, not give away. In the first case, goodness in the world arrives, in the second - the same amount remains.

Compensating for your inner unhappiness with the help of other people, you do not become happier, you empty yourself, doom yourself to further suffering. But if you are happy and help friends, relatives, participate in charitable initiatives, you are not only doing a good deed, but also inspiring others to catch up to your level.