Friendship presupposes a certain parity in relations. When there is an imbalance in a relationship, because one is only giving and the other is only receiving, it becomes a parent-child relationship or an older, stronger relationship with a younger, weaker one.

By the way, gratitude and the need to demonstrate it is one of the most difficult duties. That is why, if you are someone who constantly does good deeds, you probably noticed that those to whom you do them are somehow shamefacedly avoiding you. Respect aloof. Respected but not loved.

Therefore, if you want real sincere affection, do not pounce on people with your help. Give them the opportunity to thank you equally.

If you are one of those who believe that you owe everything, remember that you will never be perceived as a serious, independent player until you become one. They will help out of compassion. It is even possible to love to some extent - for weakness. But certainly - will not be respected.