Since I have been on this site for three months now I have met a lot of beautiful young women of course everyone one is younger then me in age.(lol) But what I want to talk about might make some powers to be upset and if it does so be it!

I am on this site to find a woman that I can not only talk to but to listen to her thoughts and feelings, to let her open up and discover her inner passion, what she likes and dislikes, how she feels about a variety of different things she may have locked deep inside her soul. What drives her to take leaps of faith to find a man who she can fall deeply and passionately in love with but not really know him or what might be in his background that he may not want her to know about.

As a former Police Officer I say do a background check on them to see if the gentleman comes up clean or does he have a record, I myself would volunteer to let you check my background because I have nothing to hide as a lot of us are (to use the phrase) CLEAN. It is better to be safe then sorry, a good practice to follow in life!

Now when you meet a person on here and you want take it to the next level, keep in mind and this may be just me, but I am a one woman man and if we are talking about taking in further like MARRIAGE I want a one man woman. Now that means to me that if we are at that next level, I don't want to see you talking to other men on here or see multiple post of "MARRIAGE PROPOSALS" from other men you may be talking too!!!

Ask yourself as a woman, would it upset you if you saw several different postings from one man to several girls to marry him and you were talking to him too, thinking you had something special together! It would most defiantly hurt and could cause problems and the heart has very tender feelings and not always easy to heal.

A rule of thumb would be don't be to fast to say "YES,I WILL MARRY YOU" and if you are going to take it to the next level be polite enough to let other men know you are in a on line relationship at this time, and guys we need to do the same,that way we can stop getting blindsided by post that could cause unnecessary heartache.

I know each of us deserve to be happy and to have a caring and loving relationship, but sometimes we need to take a step back to see if we can improve on the system we are using to find our soul-mate.

I pray this helps each and everyone who reads this so they can be better prepared in finding love.


Mark Reno