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Is love real on the Internet????
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By means of virtual communication, correspondence, communication in chat rooms, it is really possible to create a fairly close connection, especially if at some point communication turns into a format of fairly frank dialogues, interests coincide, a sense of humor, perhaps some values that the interlocutor is talking about.

After some time, you can catch yourself thinking about this person, you want to write something to him, get his opinion, it feels like you are not alone.

But, unfortunately, without real meetings and a sufficient amount of time spent together (live), this communication has a rather one-sided format.

In correspondence, you can only evaluate a person's words, and do not have the opportunity to compare them with his real actions.

That is, he can present to you only one side of himself, suitable for you, which you want to see in him.

Often such communication is like a meeting of two fantasies, because of the impossibility of live communication, you have to think a lot about this person, and usually these fantasies have a positive color, that is, the person does not seem to be what he really is.

The format of falling in love in such a relationship may well exist, but it is worth taking into account that you are in love not so much with this person as with a fantasy about him.

Therefore, at some point such an interlocutor may seem ideal.

Love, on the other hand, involves meeting differences, and for this it is necessary to get to know a person from different sides, and not only from those that he is ready to show you, it is necessary to find out his shortcomings and understand whether they are suitable for you (as well as yours for him).

Thus, it is better to reinforce the beginning of a relationship in the format of correspondence with real meetings as soon as possible, otherwise prolonged virtual communication can create an incorrect image of a person and make him idealize it!!

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