So how do you determine if this very relationship is serious or “for fun”? Is it possible to guarantee that in a few years this person will not slam the door on you or find a new hobby?
“There is nothing more permanent than temporary,” says a wise Eastern proverb. Nothing in life lasts forever, but a person in search of some kind of guarantor of permanence misses life itself, its possibilities, the variety of colors. But after all, it is precisely from the moments that life consists, from the temporary the permanent is obtained. And like this in the love.

Women are looking for long-term, lasting and, most importantly, permanent relationships in which they could give birth to a child, gain psychological security and be confident in the future. Women are characterized by the idealization of feelings, therefore, falling in love, every time it seems to them: “Here he is! The same prince on a white horse! And the girl sees in this "prince" not just a young man, but her future husband, the father of her children, plans a life together and a wonderful end - death in one day.

Men are the wind. Constantly conquering different women (or at least trying to do it), they assert themselves in their own eyes. However, this does not mean that men do not need a permanent woman - they need, they need a reliable rear, "a harbor in which they can always moor." But before being with the same one, before surrendering to one woman, men must “play enough”, therefore, only by the age of 35-40 is the stronger sex ready to become part of the family and think about some kind of serious relationship.

We will never understand the true value of a relationship if we have no other experience. Simply put, it is impossible to find “the one” without trial and error, without “not it”. You need to go through a variety of relationships, love for life is rare (to be realistic - never). You can not appropriate each person to yourself and seek loyalty from him until death. And we all cling, people are big owners. It must be remembered that if one day we are interested in a person, and he are interested in you, this does not mean at all that you will always live with him. The seriousness of a relationship is a very complex and deceptive concept that cannot be predicted, no matter how strong the feelings are.

Are you happy with your significant other now? If yes, then do not think about the future, about seriousness, live here and now and enjoy today!