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Meeting after chatting on the Internet
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While the meeting is still scheduled, you should know a couple of simple rules for meetings after dating on the Internet :

You don't know this person. You may have communicated with this person for a couple of hours, days, weeks, or maybe months, but you still don't know what this person is like in real life. An acquaintance on the Internet still leaves behind a certain riddle, and only a real meeting can solve it.

Rushing to meet after chatting on the Internet is not always an effective way to get acquainted. Girls very often have warnings about the meeting, as guys and men want a quick meeting. The fact is that guys and men have fewer of these warnings than girls.

Anyway, if you decide to meet a stranger in real life via the Internet, then first try to chat with him for a while online, you need to understand for yourself how much this person will be able to maintain a conversation in communication and how much the interlocutor is interesting to you.

Before you meet, call me. If you met on a dating site or on social networks and communicated only by texting, then exchange phones and call before the meeting. This is another good reason to find out about your interlocutor.

To hear the voice of the interlocutor, how he speaks and what he says, will give a little idea about him. If there is an opportunity to use webcam communication, do not miss this chance, then you will not need to give your contact phone number and webcam communication will give a better effect than phone communication.

A safe place to meet. After you have called and decided to meet, now you need to think about where the meeting will be safe. A safe place to meet is a place where there is a large crowd of people and where you and your interlocutor will be comfortable.

If we are talking about the first meeting, then it is better to cancel trips to an apartment or out of town for the time being, if you are not sure about your interlocutor. The topic of a safe meeting was touched upon in the article secure communication on the Internet.

Plan a meeting for a couple of hours. A meeting after chatting on the Internet should not be planned for the whole day. It is enough to take a couple of hours for a meeting, this will be quite enough to start to find out about your interlocutor.

If you notice that things are going well at the meeting and you find a common language quickly, it's okay, there will be many more chances to meet again and spend more time.

Leave a good impression. You may not yet fully realize how interesting the meeting was at the time of the meeting itself. And only after arriving home after the meeting, you will begin to analyze everything to the smallest detail. Therefore, try to leave a good impression of yourself when you meet.

Firstly, this is a good tone, because you and your interlocutor may want to meet again over the Internet in the future and remember that the meeting with you was pleasant to him, that there are still good interesting people on the Internet. On the other hand, you will show yourself in a good way and, perhaps, your interlocutor will like you. Behave calmly, openly and at the same time try to attract your attention. Attract not only with words, but also do not forget to smile – this is a good signal that you perceive your interlocutor positively.

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