Many consider jealousy to be a kind of relationship stimulant: being jealous means loving. Yes, in small doses, jealousy can really strengthen feelings. But when you hear accusations of infidelity constantly and without any reason, you feel that your every step is controlled, you wait with horror every evening for a showdown, then it becomes completely out of love.

🔴WHEN JEALY IS NECESSARY
Jealousy in moderate doses gives tone, brings the necessary adrenaline into the relationship. A man is by nature a conqueror, a revolutionary, and to some extent he must have a developed sense of ownership. Therefore, when his partner tries to please others, it “spurs” him on and he does not switch to another woman, but wins one all the time. After all, if other men look at his woman, then he chose one of the best.

🔴WHAT IS THE PARADOX OF PASSION?
Another thing is when this sense of ownership begins to take pathological forms. A man believes that his partner should always be near him, controls her every step, checks the phone book.
He can call her every ten minutes to check on what she's up to. If she is even a little late at work, does not answer the phone, he begins to have a strong panic.
Gradually, his partner loses interest in him, and instead of getting closer, she begins to move away even further: spend more time with her friends, stay late at work. Naturally, such relationships do not end well.