At the university, at work and just in life, I happened to communicate with many men, most of whom were not married and did not plan to start a family ... Without thinking about the reasons, at some point I was disappointed in men, for the truth I took that the fact that "all men need only one thing from a girl ...". How often have you heard this phrase from girls?
But over time, when my friends began to get married, I thought, where did they find that man who wanted to get married, and not the one who needed only one thing from a girl ...
Looking at how my girlfriends manage to build happy families, I realized that I was wrong. There are no men who categorically do not want or are not ready for family life. But they can be divided into several types:

Type #1
Such a person lives for himself - goes to work, gets enough to meet his needs and even more. Financially, he can afford a family, but he does not yet understand why, because it is so good. He meets girls, does not change them like gloves, but he does not call for marriage and is not going to.
Ask any happily married man about his past, and he will tell you a lot of interesting things about women who did not suit him in one way or another. He also had one-night stands, and an outburst of disappointment literally a week later, and a long boring romance when he prayed to God that she would not get pregnant, so that she would not have to become a Sunday dad.
But once he met his future wife, everything changed. He immediately turned into a "person who is in the mood for a serious relationship," which he immediately began to develop with her. Why?

Type #2
He was in a serious long-term relationship, goes on dates every other time, because he considers it too energy-consuming, and most applicants are unsuitable. He also has a good job, he is engaged in his development, and he seems to want a relationship, but he doesn’t want to burden himself and bother himself.
There are men who, in their fantasies, could get a star from the sky, but in reality they have to get up from the sofa, and, conversely, climb into the sky. You have to strain, and he's not used to it. The same with girls. But his trouble is that enterprising girls who consider him their prize and are ready to fight for him do not like him at all. And those who inspire need to be taken care of, to receive stars from the sky. So he sits alone, waiting for his desires to coincide with his capabilities by themselves.
It is easy to persuade such a man to live together, if you do not particularly bother, but take all the worries on yourself and do not expect love and support from him. He can stay married for a long time. But is such a relationship necessary for a modern, developing girl?

Type #3
He has been in search for many years, but does not stay in a relationship for more than six months. At first he expresses serious intentions, shows himself to be a knight (gifts, help, attention, care, charisma), and as soon as he realizes that this is not the princess of his castle, he disappears, sometimes even without explanation.
He is often no longer young, usually they have several marriages behind them and a large number of novels of varying length and depth. He is genuinely fascinated every time and thinks it's forever. He introduces each new “love for life” to his mother, and a week later he introduces him to another. But that doesn't stop the man.
Such a person wants to live in a fairy tale. But the story is never long. Not all romances have to end with a wedding, this must be accepted. In such a relationship, you need to take advantage of the moment, enjoy the process, but you can’t make far-reaching plans.

Everything I wrote above applies to women as well.
It's just that a person is somewhat more complicated than a push-button telephone, and there is no such combination of numbers that you need to press in order for him to carry out commands. It is just necessary that a certain type of man coincides with his wife in terms of views, life goals and values, he sees in her a girl who admires him and whom he does not want to let go.

In the end, I would like to thank this site, which gives us the opportunity to find exactly the type of person with whom you are ready to start a family!