I hope I find you as safe, well as possible!
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Many of you, women, may not believe a good/kind, caring and loving man, with much humanity/humanness, could be much interested too
in “photos” of your mind, personality, heart and soul.
This may have a lot do with the prevailing culture that wants women to believe that all men are mostly interested in the body of a sexy, attractive woman.
Wrong.
A good/kind, caring and loving man will often ask himself the following questions
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What about her eyes (so important; as we say, windows to her soul, to a person’s soul), lips (smile)?
What about her mind, personality, beliefs, values, talents, past, experience, maturity, education, achievements, dreams, intelligence, curiosity, enthusiasm, heart, soul, body?
Does she feel good with herself?
Does she have a mind of her own (positive connotation)?
Does she have a strong sense of purpose in life?
Is she (he of course doesn't expect her to have all the following qualities (traits))
good/kind, humble, simple, open, honest, respectful, caring and loving, loyal/faithful (a one man woman), communicative, considerate, understanding (one who can listen with empathy), full of humanity/humanness, ethical, altruistic, equitable, forgiving, generous, sharing, cultured, refined, reflective, with depth, appeasing, peaceful, sensitive, sweet, supportive, determined, meritorious, hard studying/working, responsible, trustworthy?
Is she family oriented (valuing family life, children, education, pedagogy, healthcare)?
What people does she admire?
What truly moves, touches her?
What are her interests, likes, passions, talents, tastes?
What about
- History, philosophy (maybe ethics, feminism, political philosophy), law, political science, economics, business administration, biological and physical sciences, psychology, literature, cultures of other people, languages, arts, theater, music (maybe classical, popular, rock and roll), dance (maybe ballet, choreography, social dance, Latin American dances (tango), folkloric dance, slows), drawing, painting, sculpture, architecture, design?
- Books, music, songs, photos, movies?
- Writing, playing a musical instrument, singing, dancing, doing a certain sport, cooking, fashion, clothes, sewing, shopping?
Does she appreciate, like to have good, healthy fun, to smile, laugh, be mischievous, playful, teasing, witty, to spend time
with good friends?
Does she value education, health care (including of course psychological healthcare), fair play, team play?
Does she have any favorite quotes?
What importance does she attribute to the body, sensuality, sexuality, lovemaking?
What about
- Sensuality, sexuality, lovemaking being good, natural, simple, in good taste, refined, healthy, honest, respectful, caring and loving, romantic, erotic, faithful, communicative, considerate, understanding, ethical, meaningful, responsible, trustworthy, renewed, varied, playful, that there be plenty of them, to our heart's content, with much foreplay?
- Giving as complete contentment, pleasure, satiety, satisfaction as possible to her lover (and of course expecting the same from him)?
- Being open, somewhat liberated, uninhibited, ready to abandon herself to her lover (after he has earned her trust, and again of course expecting the same from him)?
- Facts, myths, taboos?
Does she consider herself a little ring, part of a long chain (humanity, in time and space)?
When her time will be up, here on Earth
- What will she have done for others, what will she have brought to others?
- How would she like to be remembered, what would she like people to say of her?
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What? Fine, but can we now passionately make love? Sigh… (Wink!)