Time for just two. For harmonious relationships, it is important to spend time not only with the whole family, but also together. After all, the center of the family is not children, but a man and a woman. If everything is fine in their relationship with each other, there is enough romance, common interests, common impressions, then the whole family will be strong and harmonious. Be sure to plan events - trips to the cinema, spa, cafes, travel - that you will live only together. But do not forget about spontaneity - very often it is unplanned adventures that turn into the most pleasant memories!
Correct behavior in conflicts. For many, this sounds contradictory: is it necessary to behave somehow in a conflict? We grew up with the belief that the best thing in a relationship is to avoid conflict, or at least extinguish it.

But it's not. It sounds paradoxical, but conflict is the only way to achieve family harmony, an opportunity to bring relationships to a qualitatively new level. Development is impossible without conflicts! Treat them as a chance to hear and understand the true feelings and desires of a person dear to you. It is possible that you will need a consultation with a psychologist - use this opportunity to demonstrate how important relationships are to you, how much you are willing to invest in them.
Personal space. Looks like a paradox again, doesn't it? After all, we are talking about the relationship of two. But even in the happiest and most close-knit family, a man and a woman are two close, but different people. Each of them - as a separate person - has his own desires, interests, habits, beliefs. The partner does not have to share them, but it is important to respect them. Psychologists never tire of repeating that in a couple, everyone should have their own space and time. This is the “magic place” where you can do what you love, spend time the way you want, understand yourself. Such solitude is not only an opportunity to miss each other, but also to get emotional nourishment, being alone with yourself, to be filled with strength, so that later you can understand how strong your feelings are.
WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP FOR? Let's see why we need relationships in the modern world. Truly harmonious unions are built from the desire to give joy to yourself and your loved one. The secret of a happy relationship is that two self-sufficient people, happy separately, meet and make each other even happier. It may seem like a fairy tale, but it happens when partners work on themselves, on their character and help themselves and their other half. 1. Stop trying to prove something, fight, compete, be offended, manipulate. A self-sufficient person alone with himself is in a state of happiness and strives to make the person who is nearby happier. 2. Help a person, inspire him and please him without expecting anything in return. If you are not in a relationship yet, then “train” just on the people around you. Smile at an unfamiliar colleague in the office, make a sudden gift to a friend. 3. Inside the relationship, try to talk to each other as sincerely as possible. Honesty with yourself and your partner, as well as a state of fearlessness, are the foundation of strong alliances. The less fear and more love we have, the less vulnerable we are, the easier it is for us to open up. 4. Love yourself. It happens that a woman in a relationship always lacks something, first of all - love. She illusory thinks that she will receive love from another person, but she must begin with love for herself. Here, many are afraid of becoming selfish, and in vain: to become an egoist, you need to care only about your own good to the detriment of others. It's not about you, is it? It is important to remember that a fulfilling relationship can only be created through a state of love and acceptance. When we know how to accept and forgive ourselves, it is easier for us to understand and forgive another person. And then it is easier to build relationships, because the heart is open. But when we suffer, our heart is closed. You can't build a relationship with a closed heart.

To build harmonious relationships, it is important to work out relationships with your parents before they begin, heal your inner child and build relationships with the former. It is not fast, but very exciting way!