Some people can be absolutely happy living together in a one-room rented apartment, even if they have low salaries. But some more affluent people can be deeply unhappy, lying on the beach of a luxury hotel. Even in mansions, unfortunate people can live who do not understand each other and constantly swear. What kind of feeling of happiness can we talk about in this case.
People often do not know themselves what they need to be happy. They earn huge capital, hoping that after reaching a certain point they will become happy with their condition, but in the end they are left with only disappointment. Happiness must be sought in the depths of your soul, you need to figure out why exactly you are doing everything, what is your ultimate goal. Perhaps you have everything to be happy right here and now.A healthy person who has loved ones is already a happy person. He just needs to understand it. You don’t need to look for happiness somewhere, you just have to look at your life, it definitely has something that is enough to feel happiness.
Being kind, sympathetic, sensitive is happiness.
People belonging to the category of optimists cannot be unhappy either. They all find a positive side in every situation, they do not get hung up on temporary problems and difficulties. Only worry about what you can change. For example, you can improve your relationship with your spouse, you can worry about it. But you are unlikely to be able to influence the weather or the political situation in the country, so you don’t need to think about it.
Look for joy in daily activities. You woke up, you have a roof over your head, you have the opportunity to eat tasty and full - this is already happiness. Just think that not everyone has such happiness. There is a loved one, albeit problematic and grouchy, but not everyone has such happiness.
Think about what you have, not about what you lack. Believe me, with this approach to life, soon you will have everything to be happy.