What is a family for?
1. To share joy and sorrow. To feel mutual support and support.
2. Create your own little world filled with harmony and love. In order to receive peace, stability and love from this world later.
3. To have intimacy. I mean, there is no need to look for a partner, because he is always there and, with a harmonious relationship, intimacy will only be a joy.
4. Motivation for self-realization. The desire to do something for family and friends. The desire to provide for the family financially (lonely people often repeat: "Why do I need it, I'm still alone," etc.

Because of what people are most often lonely
1. They just want to be free
It is difficult for people with this attitude to enter into a relationship that will reach the altar. Such people "owe nothing to anyone." They are disgusted by any situation that restricts their freedom.
2. Selfish
I am the universe. A relationship is a mutual contribution and the work of two partners. It will be difficult for selfish natures to keep a person next to them who could sacrifice himself for the sake of meeting his needs, and not for the sake of meeting the needs of the family.
3. I'm not the same as I was
As we get older, we become more intolerant of certain actions of people. If at a younger age we could be more loyal to a partner, then growing up and gaining experience, we become more demanding: "I don't like that he slurps when he eats, he shuffles his feet and doesn't close a tube of toothpaste," etc.
4. They don't want obligations
It is also difficult for people who do not want to commit themselves to marriage. "If I get married, then I will have to..."
5. They don't want to be responsible
Only people who are aware of who they are and understand why they are doing it can afford to take responsibility for other people.
When a person lives being insecure in himself, then it will be difficult for him to take responsibility not only for others, but also for himself.
6. High standards "I want him to be tall, broad-shouldered, rich, smart, kind and...". When a woman has formed an image of a man with whom she wants to be close, the slightest deviation from her standard leads to unrealized relationships.
7. Unhealthy self-esteem. "I'm 50 years old, but I want a boy of 20 years old, handsome, athletic," or "I'm 45 years old, and I want a young, slender wife and to be smart and efficient." I have outlined only a few reasons, but in fact there are many more. If you see one of the listed reasons in your loneliness, then try to deal with it. You can do this with the help of a psychologist or on your own.

I will give some recommendations for those women who are single not because they have their own reasons, but because there are simply few men around.
1. You can artificially increase the ratio of men and women in your life. It is enough to find a hobby where the number of men is greater. These are any types of men's sports, recreation, etc.
2. Learning languages will also increase the opportunity to meet your soulmate. The earth is huge and there are many men on the whole planet.
3. Use the internet and dating sites, but be careful.
4. Adequately evaluate yourself and the man with whom you want to enter into a relationship.
Remember, the family should be an oasis where partners support each other, where they can be natural and not try to play their role.