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How to talk to a girl when you first meet her
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1. Make eye contact
Eye contact is an incredibly powerful tool for creating rapport between people. I have read recently that the psychologist Arthur Aron has experimentally proved that people are able to fall in love in a few minutes just by looking into each other's eyes.

2. Don't try to impress people. Just communicate.
Many guys believe that the more attractive the girl, the higher her bar of requests in relation to the opposite sex. I think as a result of this misconception, light flirting turns into reading out a resume, which I personally find repulsive.

Don't get hung up on yourself.
Unsuccessful flirts often talk too much about themselves. The problem is that this is not the best way to get involved with other people. This kind of attitude can turn a conversation into a competition.We rarely meet people who are interested in our opinions. It is even rarer to meet such individuals among attractive young ladies. I am sure that by focusing on a girl, you will make her feel special.

Here are some examples of good questions for me:

1) What places and countries would you like to visit?
2)What are you most proud of in your life?
3)Do you want to be famous? What would you like to be famous for?
4)What would you do if you had absolute freedom and a potion of luck?
5)What superpower would you like to acquire?
6)What do you like most about your job? What's the least?

4)Look for common interests.
We instinctively sympathize with those who are like us. Having one interest makes us think we can relate to other things. The more you and a person have in common, the more comfortable they are with you. As the level of comfort increases, so does the level of sympathy.

And remember, the most important thing is to relax and feel your partner, and then your dialogue and acquaintance will be comfortable and memorable. Good luck and love to all!

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