OK, I've had some time to work this out.
In mind and body, spirit and soul.
What is the attraction I find in you?
I say "I find" for I cannot speak for all men.
Nor do I wish to be grouped with "American men" in general.
No, these are my personal observations which in turn may harmonize with some, but not with all.
I seek a strong public face. A woman who can hold her own even after I am gone. I am attracted to physical beauty, of course, but a lady who can achieve where I can not, this is my hope. I am supportive, I am a survivalist. I could live alone until death and it would not break my spirit. But why should I?
The same is what I desire of my wife. A woman who seeks my companionship because she wants me, not because she needs me. Need God, yes, need me, that is artificial. You may grow to need another as you grow in time together becoming as one in spirit first and fore most, then soul, then mind, lastly, and least important, in body.
I know that Ukrainian women tend to be ambitious, determined. You only need opportunity and you achieve, materially, miracles. But I offer a chance to redirect your life to a more personal relational lifestyle. I would support your efforts 100% but guidance can only be offered not commanded in relationships. So, I ask if you would respect me, my decisions, offer insight but see first if it works before discarding it off hand, then I can only offer one thing in return.
I realize it may not sound like much at first glance. In fact you may think I am backwards thinking, narrow, old-fashion minded and domineering. But Think it through wise one. I can only offer to love you. As Christ loved and is my example to love. I will love you. Little materially, with little prospects in future that I am motivated to pursue at this time. I can not offer riches, fame, or power. Only the one thing.
Can an ambitious, traditional-minded, intelligent, and strong-willed woman find this attractive? Not for me to say. only you can.
Smart enough to put a puzzle together of who, where, what, why?
I hope this gives insight. "Woman in America" are not so ugly, feminist-minded, and unruly as some may lead you to believe. But they do not have my hearts attention either. They are as varied as falling snow flakes. But most of the pretty woman would not give an old poor man, such as I, the time of day let alone even having a passing thought of interest in a relationship. I am sure the same would be said of you if you were to live here and we crossed paths, realistically. This forum has allowed me to present myself before circumstances hindered our meeting. That is the only reason I hold hope for us. Now, most likely I am used as a diary/ sounding board for you. A fatherly figure with romantic fantasy mixed in. But I will not complain, at least I can dream too.
Yours, Louis Anthony Morales.