1. The opinion that the true feeling is love at first sight is speculation. In the first minutes, you can experience tenderness, sympathy, sexual desire, but it is possible to fall in love only after a long communication.
2. We think that our chosen one is unique. Attachment and passion tend to fade away, and a new hobby comes in their place.
3. Opposites attract – a common legend. Similarity in character, temperament, world views, life attitudes – all this is the key to a strong relationship.
4. Be prepared that he (she) will not change over time. A person can put on a mask to be more attractive and "comfortable", but the true essence will sooner or later make itself felt.
5. Forget that you have to sacrifice a lot in the name of love. Such a masochistic pattern leads to the creation of a couple where one is the victim and the other is the executioner.
The idea that a genuine feeling is necessarily mutual is wrong. One can really love, the other can not love at all.
6. It is dangerous to say that love is certainly great sex. Just as an intimate relationship can proceed without a romantic relationship, so love intimacy can exclude amazing sex or even sex at all.