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Birthday alone
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Many of you remember how you could not fall asleep in anticipation of your own birthday, in anticipation of gifts, parties with friends, entertainment and much more. The magic of the holiday fades over the years, especially if you celebrate your birthday alone. As a child, every birthday was perceived as a holiday. For several days, pleasant lights lit up in my soul, and I looked forward to becoming a year older.

School years flew by, then college. The year began to be considered "another year has passed, now I'm 18." I thought: “Well, yes, a year has passed, and what's wrong with that? And then I was already 25 ... the figure suddenly began to increase very quickly ... And the already lived year of life was measured not by the number of days in a year, but by the hit: New Year - summer holidays - so the year has passed, New Year - summer holidays - another year... And now I'll be 27 soon!!! Think scary? And you think right ... But I don’t care about age ...

It seems to me that many people perceive the process of growing up only as physical aging, and are upset about this. Now I understand how many opportunities my age gives me: I know a lot, I can do a lot, a lot is possible and practically nothing is impossible ... Huh? !! Some pluses!!! Are there any objections to this?

The longer I live, the more I tend to think that objective reality does not exist, there is only a personal perception of the world that forms the sphere of events and people around you. This is a subjective perception and helps you choose what you like, suits, close to you. Communicate with those people who are important and dear to you, come up with activities to your liking, whether it's an active sports pastime or quiet home knitting...

That is, freedom of personal choice comes, which does not depend on anyone ... Using the principle of free choice, awareness of one's freedom of choice and some perseverance, each person can make any situation in the world either desirable or reject it .. And here, it seems to me , more important is not the age that can be considered according to the passport, but the age of your soul - after all, you can be a very old person, but at the same time young. in your soul, which consists in a full-fledged, interesting, varied life that does not allow a person to grow old, makes him forget his age! !! That is, you just need to live - now, here, every minute !!!

At this point in time, I can say about my life "and my life is successful and I live well", because I have a job, well paid, stable, but not everything is as good as I would like ... I would like to find female happiness! To exchange halves of my heart with a man with whom I will walk hand in hand all my life. I love life very much, I want to live as long as possible. Spend as much time as possible with your loved ones. Health is the main thing in life, and everything else - we will earn, repair, throw away, buy. The main thing is to have someone to share this happiness with!

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