Girls are masters of manipulation, this is an innate gift that increases over the years (or reptiles). Another two-year-old crumb pulls small paws to daddy's neck so that he picks up the handles or buys another baby and it works - dad takes and buys. Over time, the conditioned reflex becomes a "second skin" from which many cannot (or do not want to) jump out.

There are tears, a plaintive tone, eyes like Shrek's cat and a whole range of words ineffective, but merciless. "You never help me," "you don't understand me at all," "you don't give me anything," "you absolutely don't pay attention to me," and so on with everyone-never, always, forever, forever, ever.

What do you want when you say these caustic phrases for men? To help, regret, support, hug or listen... But don't ask him about it, you need him to guess for himself! And so you enhance the dramatic effect by forgetting that men don't have the "guess" option. But in my head, between work problems and car repairs, there is a secret notebook in which there is a list of all his good deeds. A man never forgets what he has done good for you, but he always forgets what is bad - this is their peculiarity.

And here's your "you never ...", he sincerely resents... wait "in 2010, in January, we were on Avatar, last year I brought you your daisies three times, and three weeks ago I listened to your mom for 12 minutes ..." The conflict has matured - the game has begun.

Men, it is not always necessary to take into account the words that your not logical girl says, perhaps she is tired, and you just got under the "hot hand". Advice from a woman: in any incomprehensible case, answer in three words: I love, I'll buy, we'll go, and when the hysteria begins to fade and the "finish" gurgling appears, silently hug. So you can save your marriage and your own nervous system.