Some people find their soulmate on the first try, but many do not. And those of us who were not lucky enough to meet our love begin to compare ourselves with friends, relatives and random people who have succeeded. We begin to wonder why this hasn't happened to us, and we also worry that this will never happen in our lives at all. We convince ourselves that we are broken, unwanted, and unloved. We make a mental list of the reasons why we are still alone, and justify our loneliness with them.
This is a vicious circle.
But do you know what?
In life, many processes remain hidden from our eyes until a certain point. But when that moment arrives, we feel caught off guard, surprised, and overwhelmed. And if most things in our lives happen unexpectedly, then why should we expect love to come in any other way?
Love will find you when you least expect it.
Some call it insight, intuition. Others call it fate, they say that everything that is destined to be will definitely happen. Still others argue that it is worth giving thanks to the Universe, God, etc. Whatever the forces behind what is happening, it is worth believing that you will actually meet love if you want it.
You cannot schedule this. There is no formula for love. There is no explainable reason why it didn't work before. We always think that in order to find love, we have to be somewhere else with some other person, but the truth is that you are exactly where you should be. Right here, right now. Let go. Let everything be as it will be. Stop forcing relationships that you yourself know deep down don't bring you joy. Stop chasing people who don't want to be chased. Live your life. And love will not keep you waiting. It always happens that way.

Please, just give love time because it will find you, not the other way around.