Just loving someone and not knowing why is very hard work, and therefore most people begin to invent an ideal for themselves, endowed with certain virtues. But this practice does not lead to an eternal union of two hearts. What do you need for a long and happy life together?

❤️1. Sincerity. It is the absence of lies in a relationship that will lead to a long life together. Just starting to build mutual connections, a person tries to deceive a loved one, hiding his shortcomings, bad habits and inclinations. It is not necessary to do this immediately, and even more so after, when a family has already been created.

❤️2. Mutual respect. It is mutual respect that is necessary to maintain good relations for a long time. If at least one of the spouses does not want to take into account the opinion of the other, this will lead to a conflict, and not just one.

❤️3.Support – both moral and physical. Everyone needs care and understanding. And when one of the partners feels bad for some moral reason or he suddenly falls ill, then only someone who is close, who loves, sympathizes and cares, will be able to cure him of mental suffering and bodily torment.

❤️4.A positive and easy attitude to life can eliminate many problems that seem difficult and impossible. Don't build castles in the air, and then you won't have to fall to the ground. Be content with what you have and really look at things and relationships with other people.

❤️5.To be like-minded in all endeavors means to solve all household and money problems without quarrels and scandals. You should not make plans for anything without consulting your spouse.

❤️6.There is no need to hide your feelings in yourself, it is always necessary to share them, even the most negative ones. But not with shouts, complaints and accusations, but calmly, as if asking for advice on what to do. It is easier to share joy than sorrows and problems, but it should not hide anything from a loved and loving person.

❤️7.Simple hugs and kisses, tenderness and attentive attitude only strengthen trust and raise the vitality. I want to behave the same way with a gentle and affectionate person. Do not be shy about your feelings and hold hands more tightly, even if you have lived together for more than one year.

❤️8. You should always try to be close, even if two are far from each other, think about a meeting, call up more often and ask not about business, but about the state of mind. Talk more often about your love for your spouse, about how you are waiting to meet him.

❤️9.Jealousy is one of the worst enemies of love. This is selfishness and selfishness. A spouse who does not trust a loved one will not be able to live peacefully on his own and will not let his life partner live.

❤️10.Everyone should have their own outlet, their own corner, where
if he could have some privacy. Only a few people can be together all the time, so you should try to respect each other's personal space.

❤️11.You should not try to change your spouse for yourself. Each of the people is unique as a person. Everyone has habits, both bad and good. It is not necessary to "break" the character of another. If the spouses love and respect each other, they will either accept each other as they are or try to change themselves for the sake of a loved one.

🔸🔸🔸Finally, I would like to quote the words from the Bible, which best characterize what the relationship between loving people should be. "Love is long-suffering, merciful, love does not envy, love does not exalt itself, is not proud, does not commit outrages, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not think evil, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth; covers everything, believes everything, hopes everything, endures everything." Follow this wise formula, and family relationships will be happy and long.