“The easiest way is to take into account that in any actions of the partner lies a positive intention. As a rule, a person tries to do "what is best" in his world. Not the fact that it will coincide with your world. And that is why empathy is so important in order to determine the central motives of a partner. In everyday language, understand and accept a partner with all his nuances. And if this great happiness happened to you, you hear and understand not only what your partner says, but also what he really feels, you will live long and comfortably together.And yet, there is such a technique where you collect the bare facts of what is happening, unemotionally, like a video camera recording from the side. This allows many conflicts to be easily resolved, and most often not lead to conflicts at all. This also affects the long-term of your relationship, ”comments Anna Sukhova.