Understand the girl's needs
Don't act predictably and treat the girl as a predictable person, but discern her emotions and surprise her.
-Each person has their own love language and a list of things that can touch their heart, as well as aspects that they are indifferent to. A few examples are: kind affirmative words (but not all flattery), time taken, courtesies, gifts, physical touch, extremely deep rapport, memory for important little things, and the ability to turn a blind eye to obvious shortcomings. Let's say a bouquet of flowers means as much to a woman as a dinner at home means to a man (and just as little if you switch places). Introduce your partner to your love language so that the girl does not take offense if her sincere intentions do not always cause you admiration.
- At the same time, a light massage can be called a trump card, since few people refuse it. If the situation allows, then try to start with a foot massage, which should not cause embarrassment and at the same time be perceived without erotic overtones.
-Girls know that guys can "show their love" to get their body. In this case, the girl will feel that you are using her. Your one-time disrespect can sow fear in her heart that the situation will repeat itself in the future. Always consider her feelings. You should demonstrate your love so that the girl feels desired and loved. In this case, sooner or later, she will want to show you the strength of her feelings in her own language, which will now be clear to her partner.

If you have additional questions, you can always ask me them in a letter or chat. I will be glad to answer your questions. Have a nice day everyone! Valentine