What misconceptions prevent girls from getting married after forty❓

💎 All good men have already gotten married. A 40-year-old girl is sure that her ideal man is happily married and it’s definitely impossible to find a good match among her peers.
Meanwhile, worthy men can be lonely for the same reasons as women - betrayal, the tragic loss of a wife, or a protracted search for their soulmate.

💎There are no ideal men. Yes, this cannot be called a delusion - ideal people do not exist at all - so this is most likely the wrong attitude in life. If you have drawn in your imagination a beautiful image of a future husband with all his impeccable qualities, then get ready to face the harsh reality.
All people, whether a man or a woman, have many of their shortcomings and special features. And you should slightly revise the list of your requirements for a man, otherwise, you risk never meeting the one because he simply does not exist in nature. Set your life priorities correctly - there are such qualities as kindness, tenderness, responsiveness, and honesty that can compensate for some of his other shortcomings.

💎Men are liars and womanizers. Having once run into such a dishonorable gentleman, a woman can drive into her head that men cannot be trusted at all. The negative experience of past relationships distorts ideas about people, once burned it is already difficult to trust.
In this case, it's time to change the worldview and get rid of deep-rooted fears. In the end, now your life experience will help you distinguish a respectable man from a scoundrel.

💎"The train is missed". What do women regret in their 40s? Someone begins to remember their school love or a pleasant young student who had to be rejected. All this is accompanied by thoughts: “But if I hadn’t been so arrogant then, today I would be happy with him.” Regrets about the missed opportunities of the past prevent us from concentrating on the present and the future.
You will never know how life would have turned out with that beautiful young man from your youth, it is likely that your marriage could have ended in divorce, or family life would have been miserable. And ahead of you may be waiting for the real mature love that you so dreamed of. So do not regret the “gone trains”, more and even better ones will arrive.❤️