So, as promised in the last post - today we will continue our topic and I will add the following 6 points that affect a strong relationship in a couple and their happy union💞🫂

7. Don't show your partner the bill
If you have begun to consider who and what gives and what is missing, know that this is just your anxiety turned on. Focus on it, not on what you think is content. When a person “sorts things out”, he is overwhelmed with them, and it seems to him that he is acting, but in fact he is walking in a circle.

8. Don't be afraid to get old
Travel through the ages in your mind, watch how people transition into adulthood and age beautifully, don't get stuck in glamorous youthful looks. If you are afraid of age, look into this fear as if into a mirror, do not turn away: a direct and long look is always better than shifty eyes.

9. Talk about feelings
Talk, choose words, be as sincere as possible, talk about what is interesting for you and your partner. Talk about boring details. Don't be lazy to look for them. But most importantly, talk about feelings. If you are not being listened to, choose other words, be even more sincere. Feelings always hurt if they are genuine.

10. Work with annoyance
Where there is life, there will also be rubbish - it just needs to be cleaned up. The job of cleaning up the trash in a relationship is your job, not the housekeeper's. You should not shift it to another, you should not be lazy to do it yourself.

11. Learn to Express Your Thoughts Directly
Be witty and don't be afraid to hurt your partner. Sometimes it’s better to hurt, but to surprise a lot by unexpectedly opening a window. There may be blooming lilacs outside the open window.

12. Before asking a partner a question, ask yourself
Think more often about what you want, where you are, what you can give and what you will receive as a gift. If it seems to you that the other has lost the ability to love, check whether you yourself know how to love "here and now" or set special conditions.

I hope it was useful for you, your Tati :)