“She is a strong personality” - what do these words mean? What makes a woman like a man? Or support him in every possible way, even when he is wrong? Or that he always voices his opinion, even if it contradicts the opinion of others and achieves the desired success? What is her strength?

Every woman has her own answer to this question. Someone sees strength in being no worse, or even better, than male colleagues. Someone chooses a "home" life, feeling that the endless competition for success takes away strength. Any approach has the right to exist, the main thing is that it should correspond to internal values.

But this is part of the problem. A woman who chooses a home over a career appears to be a “weakling” to those who have made the opposite choice. Conversely, a careerist may appear heartless and masculine in the eyes of those who do not share her values.

No matter what choice a woman makes, there are signs by which a successful woman can be recognized in the kitchen, and at the parents' meeting, and at the meeting of the directors.

1. She doesn't care what others think of her lifestyle.
She does not pay attention to those who are negative. Ignoring comments about the wrongness of her life, she continues to go towards the goal, she knows exactly what she wants. She seems to be holding an invisible shield that reflects negativity. She realized that the disgusting thing said by someone characterizes the one who said it, and not the one to whom it is addressed, and if she listens to this, it will slow down her success, she thinks with her own head

2. She understands and acknowledges her needs.
She knows how to talk to herself. Analyzing feelings and desires, he learns to separate the important from the minor and make decisions based on internal needs, and not external circumstances.

Successful women are hardened women and they know how to learn from an unpleasant situation, instead of crying and lamenting about the injustice of life for weeks. They understand that the events of life can be a valuable experience.

3. She cares about herself and others
It's not just about physical well-being, healthy sleep, proper nutrition and sports. Equally important is the care of the state of mind. Successful women help others, and this has a positive effect on their psychological state. Giving strength to others, they receive new strength.

Self-care is not selfish. Egoists are afraid of losing what they have and do not want to share either material or spiritual values with others. They only want to take and do not understand that this makes them weak. By selflessly sharing attention, physical help, or just a chocolate bar, we get more in return and become even stronger.

4. She knows her limits
She says "yes" to opportunities that can serve her spiritual and physical development, and refuses that which can affect her destructively. Before agreeing to something, she always asks herself if she really wants it and if she has the strength and time for it.

When someone invites her for coffee, she asks herself the question: “Do I want to communicate with this person now? Or do I want to spend my time on something else? The answers to these questions make life better and help you save energy for what matters most.

5. She lives life to the fullest
She finds time for work, communication with friends, hobbies and entertainment. She will gladly take half a day to walk or take a ride on a river boat. She will not put off rest, instead she will go somewhere for the weekend to recuperate and be alone with herself. She does not suffer from the need to go to work, she loves her and fulfills her duties with pleasure, trying to do everything as best as possible.

Successful women are not born - they are made. Each of them once started small, and this is within the power of any of us. It is not necessary to change your life globally, especially if you do not feel that now you have enough strength for this. You can start with small steps.
For example, do something every day. Something simple. This will give strength every day, and at some point you yourself will feel that you are capable of more. But it is important not to forget about mental health, as being successful is not as easy as it seems. It's like a queen who wears a crown with a straight posture and proudly raised head, weighing almost 1 kilogram - try to carry a kilogram of weight on your head and not 5 minutes, but some kind of ceremony or march. They go for it, but it's worth it 👑💎