A modern woman today lives in a frantic rhythm. Mom, wife, business woman... How to combine everything so that one of these roles does not suffer? How to build your life so that one of the most important people in it - the husband - does not feel deprived of love and attention?
A working woman, building a career and having a family, needs to decide on priorities. What is the basis of her life, and what is the superstructure, in other words, what is more important for her - career or family? This is not about giving up what is less important to her, but about properly balancing these two essential components of her life. Having built a career and achieved her goals, a woman will sooner or later ask herself: “Why do I need this, if there is nothing but work in my life and is not expected?” And so you want love and warmth, children's laughter in the house, fun family holidays and romance!
The main thing to understand is that the family will not necessarily be a hindrance to work and vice versa. A modern woman has long learned to combine the "Amazon" and the "Vedic woman". You just need to know that, having made the family the basis of your life, it is not at all necessary to give up self-realization in your favorite business. Today there is a sea of opportunities to work in such a way that neither children nor husband suffer from it.
What are they - these steps that will help an active wife and mother combine her favorite work and her husband and children so as not to deprive any area of her life of attention?
How to balance career and personal life
The honeymoon flew by, the first year of marriage passed. The first stormy feelings have dulled, monotonous family everyday life has come. Home-work-work-home, every night the same thing. And my wife also got a promotion, she began to stay late at work, talking in the evening about nothing, more about turnover ..
A familiar picture? And the woman begins to ask herself questions - why? What's wrong? Perhaps it would be more correct to ask yourself: am I too carried away by my career? If family is so important to me, what can I do? In fact, everything is quite simple.
Separate these two areas of your life, do not allow one to penetrate the other.
The working day is over - forget about work, do not bring work problems home, and most importantly - the bad mood associated with them. Not only do you lack warmth and past romance in a relationship, your husband suffers from this too. And in the evening he wants to see his wife at home. Cheerful and caring, not dull and tortured. What to do?
Create family traditions
At least once a day, a joint meal, for example, dinner, when you can share the events and impressions of the past day.
Morning farewell ritual when the husband leaves for work.
Household chores that you definitely do together.
Good traditions strengthen the family, they can be passed on to children and grandchildren.
Here and now
If you spend time with your husband, discard other thoughts - about children, about work, about household chores not done.
Live in the moment, surrender to it completely and enjoy communicating with your loved one.
Refresh your senses
“Honey, we haven’t been to the cinema (in a restaurant, in nature) for so long!” Show initiative.
Let this also become a tradition - joint events, where only you and him.
A romantic candlelit dinner for two will also help refresh the senses.
Change the environment
Spend a vacation together, even if it's just a trip to nature. Let your husband see not a tormented housewife or a tired business woman. Let him see a young woman who admires the surrounding nature, loves long evening walks.
Only together
Do not make decisions on your own, be sure to discuss them with your husband.
Spend your holidays with the whole family, joint impressions and memories strengthen relationships.
Do not remove your husband from taking care of the child and raising him (I can do everything myself).
On the contrary, spend more time with your children, arrange joint Sunday trips to the zoo, to the skating rink, to the cafe.
Try to find common hobbies and hobbies with your husband.
Where to find for all this time? As a true modern woman who successfully combines mother, worker and wife, you plan your time. So put at least two days off a month there to devote them only to your husband.
Be sure to set aside half an hour every evening to talk to him, inquire about his affairs and share yours with him.
“I’ll put on happiness, it suits me so much”
You say everything is too perfect? Not at all. No one promises you a cloudless family life, there will definitely be ups and downs, quarrels and reconciliations, resentment and forgiveness. But after many years it will be clear that the career is left behind, and in the present there is a strong family and a husband with whom many different years have been lived. And you still have something to talk about, someone to worry about and something to remember.
And maybe this is happiness?!
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