But there was a crisis in their family life, her husband fell ill, from the beginning he broke his neck, then cancer overcame him. The wife had to leave work to take care of her husband, she sold everything that was in the house. After her husband died, but for a long time she periodically picked up photos and talked about how she loved her husband, what a wonderful couple they were. And instead of breathing a sigh of relief, she remembers their relationship with trepidation.

After all, love is not when you idolize a person for his beauty, success, but simply appreciate that he is next to you, that you just have him. Such a situation when you love, and your partner is cheating is quite common. Even when the other half is well aware that she is being cheated on, she continues to justify her beloved. It is also a love that knows how to forgive, endure, and hope.

When this wonderful feeling lives in your heart, then you accept your soulmate with all the flaws. But if you admire a person, he seems to you the best, beautiful and smart, it's not necessarily love. It is more difficult to see the shortcomings of a loved one and be able to forgive, accept, and bypass them. For example, if a wife has a complex character, has a habit of taking out a bad mood on loved ones, a beloved husband can always beat this situation and say that he loves her the way she is, even when he is angry. Even the ability to switch a loved one to another wave, to cheer up, is also a manifestation of love.

There is such a thing, when you want a person to be happy, it means that you love, and when you want to get it, it's a passion. When a person loves, he first of all thinks about making it good for him, while forgetting even about his desires, needs. You are constantly thinking about his health, how his life is going, his career, whether he is doing well in business and so on. It's good when love is reciprocated and the other half is also worried, as you are for him.

But how to understand that these are true feelings, when to wait for love, these questions interest many, especially in adolescence. Back in my teens, I saw a picture in the park, walking a couple of 90 years old, holding hands. They were just walking together, quietly and calmly, it is clear that they are happy together. When I looked at them, I thought how much I would like to have such a relationship, so that even the look of a person pleases. For love, it doesn't matter what kind of appearance you are and what kind of physical data you have. When a person is very old, beauty is out of the question, but these people see in each other something else that brings them joy and happiness.

Beauty and passion, of course, are pleasant, but it should not be in the first place, and even more so, completely replace all feelings. Time goes by and everything changes, besides, anything can happen in life. An accident, a serious illness, poverty, not every person wants to spend his life on a sick person, to be on duty at the bedside, to take out the ship. Especially since there are a lot of beautiful and healthy men and women around. It's good to understand at some point that your beloved needs you, especially in any condition.

There are many people with whom it can be good, but they can not always support in difficult times. A person, when he loves, is ready for anything, to support, to understand, this is support and rear, protection. The partner should understand that he is expected at home and will never be betrayed, it is such a relationship that can be called mature and wise. Such feelings will last for many years and at the end of life it will be possible to say that life with this person has not been lived in vain.