What does a real wife mean? How to be a good wife for your husband? What needs to be done to make the spouse proud of his soul mate?

The answers to all these questions may seem very simple, but do not complicate. A woman should remember that it is she who creates the atmosphere in the family and in the house. She is responsible for the comfort and warmth in the house, the mood of family members. The emotional component plays an important role in family relationships, and the responsibility for it falls on the shoulders of the young wife. To please your husband and not humiliate your own dignity, you need to know what men want. At first glance, everything is quite simple:

💋rest after work; group of friends; a kind, gentle, caring wife who has nothing against his hobbies and is ready to fulfill most of his desires. So that there are no insults and omissions, it is worth making it a rule to relax together from the first days of life together. A common hobby will become an assistant. It doesn't have to be hunting or fishing. Spouses can, together with mutual friends, go hiking, go to nature, play sports. According to professional psychologists, men marry to receive care, attention, or even obedience, devotion and complete understanding. They lack love and regular sex.

💋It is necessary that the wife be able to listen, understand, support, while not forgetting to cook, wash, serve, clean, skillfully manage the household and be sure to look good, while remaining cheerful and cheerful. Are the requirements high? Of course. But this is exactly what (according to men) an ideal wife should be.

💋Not everyone can become a good wife, always be cheerful and carefree. Problems, work, life affect the emotional state. But a woman should be able to cope with her mood, trying not to put pressure on her husband, creating a pleasant atmosphere in the house. There is no need to hang around the stove all day, preparing soups, borscht, pastries. You can afford to order pizza by laying a festive table for dinner and decorating it with candles or just a bunch of flowers. Many men prefer food cooked at home, by the hands of the woman they love. It means that it is enough to place beautiful plates on the table and make dinner not ordinary, but at least a little solemn. Occasion? He's not needed. The wife wanted to please her beloved husband, who was tired at work. A young wife should be light and positive. She enjoys every day she lives with her loved one. The house in which the spouses are, breathes with joy. A man is met not by a grumpy woman, but by a girl who wants to be carried in her arms, pampered. Zael life? You need to take your mind off your worries. Maybe you should write a playful SMS to your husband? Or ask him out on a date? Or maybe it’s worth waiting for the evening to show him new underwear? Such, sometimes unexpected, behavior is likely to surprise and delight the spouse. He is not bored with his wife, at any moment he expects a pleasant surprise from his beloved and hurries home to find out what his beloved has prepared for him. Calmness and self-confidence is a guarantee that the husband will feel comfortable next to his wife. An embittered, jealous hysteric with low self-esteem is not able to become a good wife. She is constantly tormented by jealousy, and the man wants to be sure that his wife trusts him infinitely.

💋The opinion of friends is very important for any man. Their assessment can strengthen or destroy a family idyll. What should not be done under any circumstances? Almost all women know this, but they do not always follow these rules. You can never:
repeat the phrases “my mother said ...”, “I told you”, “you didn’t listen to me”, “I knew it”, “I warned you”. Such words are the beginning of a quiet, hidden war. A wise wife should not start hostilities, trying to prove her and her mother's right. Repeat to him more often that he knows better, can do it better, without him it is impossible to cope.
You can say in a quiet voice “I was wrong” or “you, as always, turned out to be right” and the man will remember these words, he will be confident in himself, even did something on the advice and prompting of his wife. Do not complain yourself and do not feel sorry for him. A pathetic man is not worthy of respect. It is possible and necessary to caress, but it is by no means impossible to say that it is a pity for him. The husband is the head of the family, he is proud, firm, adamant. They blindly believe in this, but do not regret it. And you yourself cannot complain about fatigue or constant malaise, because neither men nor women want to listen to whining.

His friends learn from their wives how the young wife is proud of her chosen one, how she believes in him, how she loves him. He is the best everywhere and in everything. Do not forget that this confidence needs to be backed up with deeds and it is important to push a man to action at the right time. A good wife is a responsible position and hard work. It is necessary to correspond to this "title" in everything. A wife should constantly monitor her appearance, take care of her figure (trying to remain attractive to her husband), be an interesting conversationalist, and be able to support the company. But at the same time, it was the wife who creates and keeps comfort in the house, without which the family nest cannot exist❤️