1. Send a cute love note to your significant other

The choice can range from a work jacket pocket to a lunch box. You can write anything in a note, but the main condition is sincerity, kindness and gratitude. You can write just a few words, for example, “I am the happiest person on earth next to you, thank you” or a solid letter. Tell in it what you love your partner for, what you are grateful and grateful for, what positive traits you continue to find in him every day, etc. Write with love and don't be shy about your true feelings.

2. Start every morning with your loved one with a kiss

This will be a great start to the day, not only for your partner, but also for you. Make this a pleasant ritual that will set the right mood and charge you with energy and love. Relationships are meant to empower people, not to destroy and rob them of their energy. First of all, a kiss - and forward to a new beautiful day with a good mood!

3. Don't be rude even if you are in a quarrel

Relationships without misunderstandings, disputes and conflicts are impossible. You are two people who were brought up in different families, went to different schools, read different books, talked to different people, and so on. Your views on some things may differ, but learn to accept disagreements more calmly. To say nasty things, insult, be rude - this is the easiest thing to do during a quarrel. But then we all, as a rule, regret a lot of what was said. Each offensive and caustic word will be deposited deep in the heart and will pop up in the partner’s memory every time he is angry or offended at you again. Watch your tongue and learn restraint. This is one of the kindest things you can do for your other half on a regular basis.

4. Smile more often next to your partner, literally give him your smile

If you do not smile very often in life and especially in relationships, then try a simple experiment. Start doing this at least three times a day. Not only will your relationships improve, but other areas of your life will also improve. Your smile will tell your partner that you are happy next to him, and for a person who loves, this is the best reward. In addition, a simple smile can support in difficult times. Don't escalate the situation if your loved one is having a bad day - smile! The day will immediately become a little better.

5. Give a sense of security

How many things, worries, events and stress fall on each of us every day. Relationships are comfortable when they become just that safe haven where you can hide from the whole world. Take refuge with your loved one and create your own world, owned by only two. It should be warm and safe in this world, it is then that relationships will give joy and desire to be in them. Feeling safe is also about the fact that you can take off all the masks and be yourself, not be afraid to be weak. Try not to judge for shortcomings and mistakes, but support a loved one in difficult situations.

6. Surprise your soulmate with a gift from childhood

Remember how your partner talked about his childhood? Do you remember what happy and mischievous eyes he had at that moment? Arrange a pleasant and unbanal surprise for your loved one - buy a thing from his childhood that he mentioned in a conversation. This will give both him and you an unforgettable experience and strengthen your bond.

7. Give your loved one a massage

Just like that, for no reason. Massage for him/her for the sake of massage for him/her, not for the sake of being massaged in return. This is a good practice that shows you care and helps both of you relax and unwind. Touching a loved one is an extremely pleasant procedure, so do not be greedy and do not spare physical resources, but do a massage! If this is still too difficult for you, then a spa for two will be a good alternative.

8. Support your partner's goals and dreams

Do you know what your lover dreams about? Or maybe what he dreamed about when he was little? Do you know what goals he sets for himself for the coming year or what he wants from a relationship with you? If you don't know, then just ask. A sincere and sincere conversation on such topics is already half the battle. Being interested in your partner's thoughts will tell him: "You mean a lot to me and play an important role in my life." The other half of the story is that even if you can't help make the dream come true, you can provide emotional support. Agree, it is always nice to feel that you are not alone and can rely on someone in this vast world.

9. Treat him/her with breakfast

I don’t know why it happened in my worldview, but I love breakfast with my loved one. This process is especially intimate and pleasurable when you first enter into a relationship, because dinner is commonplace, and lunch can turn into a business and hurried. But breakfast is a special meal that sets the tone for the rest of the day. But even if you have been in a relationship for a long time, you can still please your loved one with a pleasant breakfast. What are some interesting options? Classics of the genre - breakfast in bed; delivery of breakfast to work; an invitation to breakfast in a cafe on your joint day off; late Saturday or Sunday breakfast at home after a long “fellow” in bed; picnic breakfast in nature with all the attributes due (entourage basket, cozy and warm blanket, fresh pastries, etc.)

10. Show your affection

This usually gets more difficult with time. But laziness in this matter extinguishes all sparks. Then, no matter how you strike matches, the fire will not appear. Show your affection through simple things: hug, kiss, say nice words, surprise with little things, pay attention, ask how your day was, arrange romantic evenings, organize leisure activities, initiate intimacy if you don’t usually do this, etc. All these are things that will speak of your love and will not lead to resentment and tension in a couple.

Love in action, be happy yourself and make your closest people happy!