Hi all. I registered on this site specifically to meet a man who has the same goals as me. I don't believe that opposites attract. People who plan to live together should look at life the same way. And here are my 5 principles for an ideal relationship:

1. You can never charm everyone.
If one person's nature matches the other person's nature, you can have a great love story, and if not... If not, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, just that you don't match up, and that's okay.
2. Don't forget to leave room for friends and loved ones in your life when your other half comes along.
The stupidest thing you can think of is giving up your friends for love. When you are young and in love, you may think that friends are a small price to pay for another lover. In fact, it is a disproportionate sacrifice that you will have to realize sooner or later.
3. Work on yourself.
Your focus should always be on making yourself better yourself. The beginning of a relationship does not mean the end of working on yourself.
4. Don't believe everything you are told.
Personally, having discovered this simple truth, I can now save myself from unnecessary pain and worry. Remember and repeat to yourself, every time, as a mantra: "Actions are louder than words.
5. Don't put physics before the psyche.
Letting a new partner into your body too quickly focuses on how much you want him, not on whether it will be a good relationship.