Many of you now, imagine handsome men from the covers of "GQ", and "VOGUE".
But there make them perfect, stylists, makeup artists, photographers. And he is perfect only on the cover of the magazine. What is this "ideal" in real life, we have little idea how he is, and for what purpose.
But, in fact, what is he like? A pumped up brutal macho? Or slightly over 40 coming in his "Rolls-Royce"? I think everyone has their own ideal.
But as far as I'm concerned, the perfect man may not know he's perfect.
He walks, lives, works, thinks. And so meeting you, offering you a drink, a coffee, he really wants to have coffee with you, without introducing any ambiguity into that offer. The perfect man, ready to help you when you need it. At times when you feel bad he will give you support. With all this, he will not wait for anything in return, he will do it because he dictates it, his inner voice, his principles of his standards. Ideal man will consider it his duty to help you to the car when you broke his heel, or offer his shoes or carry in his arms. When he comes to visit you, he will be happy and enthusiastic about communicating with you, without hinting at bedtime. Such a man, ready not to rush you to spend the night together, he is ready to wait and will be genuinely happy to your desire. Can such an ideal man have flaws for sure yes, but the ideal man is the one you love.
If you ask me if I have such a man, I'll tell you, no.
But if I'm writing about him, it means he's out there somewhere.