1. Partners idealize each other

When we are in love, the second half seems perfect to us. But in fact, we have already come up with some ideal features long before meeting a person and now we simply attribute them to him. And your partner may not be very pleased that you expect more from him than he can do. And remember that rose-colored glasses break glasses inside. Try to soberly evaluate both the positive and negative qualities of the second half.

2. Lovers dissolve into each other and forget about themselves

Of course, most often it is girls who “sin” with this. They can forget about personal interests, postpone important matters, and even stop seeing friends, just to spend as much time as possible with the man they love. But this can get boring over time, and the lady will be considered “stuffy” and annoying. Never forget about your own interests and desires, so that your partner always sees you as a person!

3. You don't want to see your partner's flaws.

If a man did something that offended and disappointed you, then this does not mean that you cannot give him a second chance. It’s just that before you do this, it’s better to calm down so as not to let the situation take its course. Be sure to tell your partner exactly what offended you and honestly admit to him how you feel. A man should immediately understand that in the future you can’t do this to you!

4. You endlessly build castles in the air

The romance that is present at the beginning of a relationship will one day end. Strong feelings will arise between partners, trust and confidence in the future will appear. However, it may seem to you that there will always be romance and a candy-bouquet period. That is why you do not think about what it will be like for you if you live with a man under the same roof, and not run on dates with him. Household little things don't bother you either. You are just happy with what you have now, but if the relationship goes to another stage, you will be disappointed and surprised. It turns out that a loved one is also in a bad mood and can scatter socks around the house!

5. You don't pay attention to the little things that life is made of.

Quite an important point that is often ignored by couples. Both the man and the woman were brought up in completely different families with different foundations, rules and traditions. Because of this, partners can have a completely different picture of the world and certain habits that have been formed thanks to the family. And it will be better if the lovers immediately discuss all the nuances so that you do not have problems in the future. However, if he is an owl, and you are a lark, then it is quite possible to put up with this. Much worse if the partner is a miser, and you are a spender. But even with this it is quite possible to cope, because opposites, as you know, attract! 🙂

Now you know what you should definitely pay attention to at the beginning of a relationship!