I have been on the site for sometime now and I get many letters from many of the same woman ask me why we as men ( myself specialy why I'm being so rude to them and not reply or not making me if maybe said woman maybe robots but because of me being a hopeless romantic I tell myself no there as real as the rest of us. Ladies please understand something it is not that we dont want to reply to you or that we are being rude to you it is just that we men ( again myself) dont always have the coins to reply and not always able to get them right away. Trust me when I tell you this it is not that I'm not serous because I am.