They are waiting with hope for the moment when suddenly, by a lucky chance, they will meet their soulmate, and this meeting will turn their lives around. Such meetings do happen sometimes. But the problem is that at the beginning of the relationship, both partners are blinded by love and simply do not see each other's shortcomings – they think that this is the love of their lives and now they are together forever.
Of course, some couples are really lucky to live in such a romantic mood all their lives. However, we must admit that many couples eventually break up. For such couples, this first "candy-flower" period may be full of illusions.

Do you think this can't happen to you?
But in fact, people never consciously get into abusive relationships and do not immediately plunge into them. This happens gradually and imperceptibly, as events develop. The partner rarely shows himself "in all its glory" from the first date.
At first, the couple is driven by passion and love, a loved one can be very attentive and eloquent. He is happy to support conversations about love for life, about marriage and children. But he behaves in such a way as to gain trust and love, and only then, when you are already strongly involved in a relationship and can't imagine your life without them, cruelty and insults begin

AND WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP DO YOU PREFER? HOW TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVERYTHING IS SERIOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?