And for some women, it's a man. To love him, to give birth to children, to cook, to take care of him, to wash his socks and underwear, to be his ideal mistress in bed. And this is not the whole list of things a woman does for a man.
She essentially gives up everything, choosing him. Of course, this is assuming that he can provide for you, he is able to appreciate you, and with understanding and respect for the fact that you are going for his sake. You give up your career, give birth to his child, losing your perfect body shape, from morning till night doing household chores. But is it worth it? After all, most of the time you'll hear negative reactions to stretch marks after childbirth, realizing that he doesn't even think about the fact that you carried the baby for 9 months and then spent 20 hours pushing it out of you. About how maybe you shouldn't go get a manicure and spend money because it's not that important, and then hearing that you're losing your attractiveness. To receive reproaches for spending too much money on a dress you bought for dinner with him, and to listen to them realizing that he forgot that he promised to provide for you when he asked you to quit your job. And wherever you look in this relationship you realize that there are two sides of the coin, and which of them is better to choose of course you. But then you wonder if there was any point in making "him" the meaning of your life. After all, when you're over 30 or when you're 40. Options for life are not so many, because you have no career, a child in your arms, and her husband, who does not love you and has long had a mistress, because you're not as attractive but I certainly will not give you money for a beauty salon.
Oh, yes, "mistress?" you ask. Yes. In the scenario I described above, every man will have another. Some will look for excuses that you're not like that, that it's about you and so on. Forgetting that he put you in the house and instilled in you that you are once and for all.
To sum up, I want to say to all women.
"There is no point in making a man the meaning of your life, because the main thing to know is that he is not the sun, the sun is you!"
VICA