The mail premise of a relationship has to be based on knowledge of differences.

Different doesn't mean good or bad,,,, Just different.

A man is built with broad shoulders for load bearing while a woman has broad hips for child bearing. Ask a man to tell you about himself and he will tell you what he does, a woman will tell you how she feels about things. Not right or wrong, just different. Men are moved more by site while a woman is more moved by emotion. Again not right or wrong, just different.

To be aware of differences is a good thing. But it is most important to realize there is no I in team. If couples would realize they are on the same team in a relationship there would be many more successful winning teams and a lot fewer arguments.

Older men and younger women can be successful if they realize it is neither right or wrong, Just Different. Love is a many splendored thing with ups and downs. Matters of the heart are never easy but can certainly be wonder filled for those brave enough to enter their waters.

It may sound funny but I recommend, enter a relationship with your eyes wide open. Then keep them half shut after begging.

Thank you for your lovely letters! Much love, Bob