Yes, just separated after 25 yrs of marriage but it was the right decision for both of us. I have tried different sites and I have been scammed by a few for money. The money is not the issue ladies it is the hurt that you put us in. Some of us are sensitive and we hurt just like you do. For me personally, I have given up on American women that don't treat their men right. Now I am here and in 24 hours I have been slammed by contacts via email or chatting. Ladies this website costs us men money, I don't know about the women's side. But please if you say that you want the guy tell him how you want us to close the deal with you. We have been banned from using crystal balls or fortune tellers to help us in knowing what we have to do to close the deal to get you to come to us. Ladies, please let us good guys know so we can get you. Why are you here???? Again it is in your court again to control the situation. Help wanted.